Dear Lilly,

Talk to her.  If you haven’t established rules for the kitchen and its contents, do so now.  Label items, separate items by shelf, whatever — just get on the same page.

Label items, separate items by shelf, whatever — just get on the same page.

She may not realize she’s upsetting your day — and this is not worth filling the apartment with tension.

— M

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