Learning to Let Go
Written on September 18, 2008 by Ms. Meniscus
First, you must end this fantasy of viewing him "as he was." He is not your boyfriend anymore. In fact, if he's been dating this new gal for half a year, he is really not your boyfriend anymore. Move on.
Once you've accepted the situation, quit hiding. It's better to say "Hello" face-to-face — with your dignity intact.